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Being Yourself

The True Fulfillment Within Nothing
January 14, 2026,
Episode 90

“Can you find a problem when the desire to attain anything is given up?”

In our search for happiness and fulfillment on the spiritual path, we usually imagine it will be found in some desired state or experience or circumstance that we apparently lack. We may tell ourselves many varied and different stories about who we are, but as this conversation reveals, it is only who we think we are. What is possible is to examine the stories you are telling yourself and recognize that true fulfillment can be effortlessly discovered in an instant of stopping, of conscious rest. Fulfillment is realized in “nothing happening at all.”

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